When I say “abandoned”, I mean you two were going out for a few months as boyfriend/girlfriend and you both told each other you loved one another, then one day the person you’re deeply in love with just disappears completely out of your life (on purpose) without teling you, and without officialy breaking up with you. They just stop calling, stop emailing, and ignore you 100% like you neevr existed because they’ve been cheating for weeks and found someone else and decided to dump you for the perso nthey’ve bee ncheating on you behind your back. That’s what I call total abandonment and betrayal, especially if they responded “ilove you too” , and you had sex all the time with them,and they knew you deeply loved them.
Anyways, how long did it take you to get over the betrayal? Can you imagine how that would f*** someones mind up if this person who abandoned you was your first real love…and never getting any closure or apology?
And yes i know he’s still alive. Yes it’s a fact he left me for some bimbo. People say i shouldnt care ,but you dont go from “deeply in love” to “not caring” overnight.
Is abandoning someone common? And why do peple do suc ha cruel thing to someone who clearly loved them deeply? I mean even if they didnt feel the same way, a total stranger gets more respect than being abandoned.
The time it takes really depends on you. One thing that can help though is to realize that it is not about you. This is an issue the other person had and it was their poor coping skills and emotional maturity that lead them to do what they did. When you internalize that and personalize it then it hurts much worse and for much longer.
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I can relate to that as years ago something similar happened to me.A man I thought I was so much in love with after a few months suddenly left me after I found out he was cheating with a friend of mine!He still denied it at the start until she showed me explicit texts on her phone from him and I confronted him with them.He suddenly disappeared.left his job for another one in another town,stopped talking to the friends we had in common and changed his phone number.After all that they didn’t even end up together and I know that it was one of the luckiest times of my life as he obviously didn’t even care enough to stay faithful!I am now engaged to my lovely partner of many years and we are planning our wedding and I know that i have the perfect man for me.it will take time for you to get over this man but it will happen.Some people just aren’t worth the love of a caring partner.You will find the right man for you but don’t just rush into another relationship.the closure of your story should be that you are getting on with your life and making the best of it and not wasting another minute thinking about this person,as tough as it is to do.good luck…
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Thats life… It happens…
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