When I say “abandoned”, I mean you two were going out for a few months as boyfriend/girlfriend and you both told each other you loved one another, then one day the person you’re deeply in love with just disappears completely out of your life (on purpose) without teling you, and without officialy breaking up with you. They just stop calling, stop emailing, and ignore you 100% like you neevr existed because they’ve been cheating for weeks and found someone else and decided to dump you for the perso nthey’ve bee ncheating on you behind your back. That’s what I call total abandonment and betrayal, especially if they responded “ilove you too” , and you had sex all the time with them,and they knew you deeply loved them.
Anyways, how long did it take you to get over the betrayal? Can you imagine how that would f*** someones mind up if this person who abandoned you was your first real love…and never getting any closure or apology?
And yes i know he’s still alive. Yes it’s a fact he left me for some bimbo. People say i shouldnt care ,but you dont go from “deeply in love” to “not caring” overnight.
Is abandoning someone common? And why do peple do suc ha cruel thing to someone who clearly loved them deeply? I mean even if they didnt feel the same way, a total stranger gets more respect than being abandoned.