My husband and I have been working hard to bring our marriage back into focus where it should be. He had an affair, more so an emotional online and then the calling, I dont think it ever got to the physical aspects. He said he was sorry, he didn’t and doesn’t want to leave. He says he loves me and our family. We had been doing some counseling for us and some counseling for each of us and how we feel. We still mostly are doing the each of us. We have come a long way and its been tough at times. He told this girl finally to stop calling, it took a while but he finally did. He told her that he needed to concentrate on us and her calls were causing problems. She said okay but she was worried about losing the friendship. It’s only been 3 weeks and she apparently called his cell phone twice just this week, he called her back but got her voicemail. He told me about it. He didn’t want me to be upset and didn’t want me to worry. The thing before is that this girl is a drama queen, there is always something terrible going on with her, which it isnt but she makes seem so dramatic. I think she has a roller coaster personality and tries to get people to feel sorry for her is why she doesn’t have many friends. I don’t want her drawing my husband back into her soap opera life again, I dont want her drawing this whole family back into it, there are others lives involved and she doesn’t see that. I will talk to my counselor but what would you do? When you truly love someone I think sometimes forgiveness comes alot easier than forgetting, especially when I got this little reminder.
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Her feelings and life-problems are non of your husbands concern. He would not allow contact if he didn’t wish to, and is using her troubled life as an excuse.
I’m sorry to say that you are working much harder than he is at repairing your marriage.
You have a right to demand he stop all contact, as he has lost the right to call this woman a friend.
I wish you the best…
lol – idiotic notion my friend!
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I keep hearing “her, her, and her”. The fact of the matter is, your husband needs to stop calling her and change his phone number, email and more. This is about HIM emotionally cheating on YOU. Although I don’t approve of her actions, I think your husband is playing the victim card. He is not victim of this woman; he is 100% as guilty for the problem as she is. What he did was wrong to you. He is the one who took vows and has the obligation to honor you, not her.
Tell your husband to actually cut all ties with her, or he can speak to a divorce lawyer. It would be a cold day in hell before I would tolerate that from a spouse….
lol – idiotic notion my friend!
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First of all. How long have you been going to this councilor. You need to either fire the councilor, and get a good one. Get the real issue out in the open this very next session with your husband. Does he really want this marriage to work so that it is fair to you, and what is it he really wants. Then you need to decide if this is acceptable to you. This behavior has nothing to do with this other woman. It is all him. Who gives a flying f about her. If it were not her, it would be somebody else. Stop being in denial and suppressing the pain this is causing you. You are not getting any results that are working toward anything. Put your foot down. He needs to work on it, and stop being a selfish spineless worm and grow up. You also can not forgive until you forget. This is not a separate issue here. To forgive IS to forget. But if you can’t ever trust him again, you will never forgive.
lol – idiotic notion my friend!
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Oh, no no no. He is not doing anything to inspire trust if he is still having any contact with her. She is not his “friend”, and they can’t have a “friendship”, because she is needy and its all about her. If your husband has even half a brain, he would cut it off entirely. It’s not about what “SHE” sees with other peoples’s lives involved, it is what HE sees and does. He doesn’t need to “convince” her to stop contact with her. He just needs to tell her, once, and THEN JUST STOP dealing with her AT ALL. Change his number if he needs to, change his email if he needs to, and *block* her calls. Telling her to stop, and then having her stop for 3 weeks and then having her call again and CALLING HER BACK is dumb. That is just rewarding her.
He’s not working so hard if he is still talking to Little Miss Drama Queen.
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Why did he call her? That is what you should be asking. He also needs to change his phone number and then she won’t be able to call him. Better yet, swap cell phones with him, then when she calls, you can speak to her yourself. It is his fault that she is able to continue to call him. Sorry is not good enough. He needs to explain to you why he attempted to return her call.
lol – idiotic notion my friend!
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