I have told my husband already about this girl calling him constantly for everything (job application, carpool, drop off something at her house cuz she left it at work) to stop responding to her calls and tell her up front to call HR and not him. Anyways, I told him how I felt about her calling (when i saw the cell phone bill) i saw that she calls him during his break time and it is like every two minutes. she calls when he is at work not at home.
anyways so i confronted him last night and he says “oh don’t worry about it it is nothing” i had to use the car so i had to drop him off to work yesterday he kisses me then i wiped it off and said ” i am upset with you” he says “f*** you what did i do now” i said “oh oh you are very innocent you are doing nothing but good” then i hop in the car and left. since then i havent talk to him except it is about the girls (our 4 children)
i had him sleep in the living room. made a way to occupy the whole queen bed
what i dont undestand why does he says he is not doing anything and he will not ask to talk about it nor even apologizes for lying to me that he calls her
he says this all the time as long as i am not f*** anyone i am not doing anything wrong.
i guess disrespecting me is nothing for him as well my feelings how i feel etc.. is nothing to him
i feel so hurt
he will not speak nothing because he believe that he is right
Uhh, you wiped off a kiss and then responded vaguely to his nasty comment to you. WOW, you two communicate like children. You then sent him to the sofa? LOL your marriage has zero chance of surviving with coping skills like that. If you are upset with him tell him why and ask him to stop what upsets you if it is reasonable…otherwise seek counseling.
You cannot assume that each ‘day’ in Genesis is millions of years because the “sun , moon, and stars” were created the day AFTER the “plants, and green trees”… (Not possible if there were millions of yrs.)
Don’t be deceived…
The order of creation days DOES NOT allow for each ‘day’ to be millions of years. Read Exodus 20:11
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he isn’t right because this is exactly how affairs begin. it is a sign of disrespect because he is hurting you and making this woman a priority and if he weren’t interested in her he wouldn’t be talking to her. you have every right to be hurt.
You cannot assume that each ‘day’ in Genesis is millions of years because the “sun , moon, and stars” were created the day AFTER the “plants, and green trees”… (Not possible if there were millions of yrs.)
Don’t be deceived…
The order of creation days DOES NOT allow for each ‘day’ to be millions of years. Read Exodus 20:11
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He’s already having an affair…..if he cant put YOU before HER there is something seriously wrong.
Been there done that..
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Get your little legs moving to the bookstore IMMEDIATELY and buy the book “Not Just Friends” by Shirley Glass.
You know what’s happening. If he hasn’t stepped over the line yet, it’s going to happen soon.
Personally, I’d call the young lady and ask her if there was something I could do for her because my husband… well, he’s married. Confront her and ask her straight up if she’s sleeping with or intending to sleep with your husband.
Then I’d switch cell phones with my husband every couple of days.
If your husband doesn’t “understand” that this is bothering you and that his actions are inappropriate, then maybe you need another husband.
Been there done that..
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It kind of sounds like he’s having a affair? Does he spend time away, giving you excuses like he’s going here or there? Better check it out better. Call her and ask her ” What’s Up” ???
Been there done that..
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You know when a person has nothing to hide, they will let you into every aspect of their lives, in other words, if he is just friends with the women, he will introduce you to her. as soon as he becomes uncomfortable with that, you need to start asking WHY. Let him know you wont cause a seen, just being open with him & playing with open cards
it seems like the women makes him feel needed. I haven’t met a man that doesn’t want to feel needed one way or another…so instead of getting mad at his actions, get part of the “game” meet the women, know the women & handle the calls the best way possible (even asking your network provider to block it or to transfer the calls to your cell) don’t let his ignorance get the better of your marriage, women can be devious creatures
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My ex BF use to do same thing and when I use to confront him he use to say that he didn’t sleep with them/her.
Eventually I did same thing to him and we broke off.
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U over reacted – he kissed u and u wiped it off then expected him to be ok with it
he shouldn’t have cursed at u – but he sounded frustrated like – u never stop nagging or badgering him
then u make him sleep in the living room – like thats gonna make things better – stuff like that makes a doorway to an affair
I don’t see a cheatin pattern like everyone else does – he talks 2 mins to her then hangs up – out of ur sight – I think he has a problem with tellin her off – but it seems she’s just a pest
grow up and talk to him and then try having a smidgen of trust in ur husband
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call one of your guy friends and see how he handles it and talk for hours when his at home
be more serious and tell him that you actually feel hurt. ask him how he would like it if you talked to a man everday on the phone for quite a while if he would like it?
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Your his wife and should come first but the way your handling the whole situation will only lead to a divorce.
Maybe bring in a second opinion. Someone both you and your husband feel comfortable with and ask in front of them how they would feel about this woman calling him all the time. Sometimes believe it or not an others output on a situation will help to improve the situation. Good luck.
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he is balls deep in that sweet poo nani – over and over and over again
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