Ok,, i am 14, and in 9th grade. I have never been asked out on a date. I got aske dout to homecoming, by this creepy new guy, (in 9th as well) and he is really creepy, and i tried to be nice about it. I am not a mean person (i can be a drama queen, but i got better), i dont text ANy boys. I text one, very very infrequently, like 1 or 2 at the most times a month. I have never hugged a guy my age who i am not related to. No guy has ever asked for my cell number. I DEFINETELY dont think im gorgeous, but one of my friends (shes not a liar, but she is brutally honest) and she said “the truth is i think youre pretty/ok.” Not one guy i have ever liked has liked me back (or at least admitted it.) and now i really like this guy, and he is older, (10th grade) and im already discouraged as it seems its not going to happen. Im afraid that maybe the guys think im a freak, cos i have so little expirience. Not that im ashamed, i mean i think its all good and well. Why could this always happen? Btw, i go to a private, conservative Christian school. Any tips or ideas or any help for me is greatly appreciated. Thanks sooo much ![]()
btw, dont be gross or rude i need serious answers. thanks
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It could be the fact you’re not shallow enough, or you don’ put out…
Or maybe you’re just not a guys type? Everyone is someone’s type…
But I still think because you’re not a school whore.
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many girls who are in 9th grade don’t have any experience. most people get their experience from high school relationships, so you really have nothing to worry about. just be yourself, that’s all you can do. don’t be afraid to step out of your shell a bit, and go up to this 10th grade boy and talk to him. try to find something that you guys have in common, and spark up a conversation. if it’s meant to happen, it will. but don’t stress it girl- you’re young.
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Just tell the mate no. He will have to deal with it. You can always say you are going with someone else. Or just ask the guy you like if he is going with anyone and if he says no, ask him if he would like to take you.
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