Ugh, this is a long story. But bear with me. I’m gonna make it as simple as possible.
I was out of town for about 6 weeks. As soon as I get settled back in at home, I get a text from my friend telling me that my other friend hooked up with my boyfriend, whom I’ve been with for two years, which just kills me even more. D: Drama! I initiated that we meet up at the dairy queen to talk, and everyone agreed. So it was me, my boyfriend, my friend that told me, and the friend that supposedly hooked up with my boyfriend. I asked them if it was true, and my boyfriend and my friend denied. Then my friend that told me said, “You liar, I told her, she knows. There’s no point in lying about it, especially since you might be pregnant.” Then my “friend” looked at her, then threw the icecream smoothie thing in her face. I was soooooooooo angry and sad and disappointed and baffled and all these emotions all at once. I asked my friend who told me why she didn’t tell me sooner, and she said that she figured that I didn’t wanna be bothered with this on my vacation… So my boyfriend was just quiet, thinking he could get away with it, but no. I slapped him, then ran outside to call my mom to come get me. I’ll I wanted to do at that moment was cry. So my mom came and got me, asking me why I was crying, I said nothing. As soon as I got home, I threw away all the pictures of me and my boyfriend, cut up the t-shirts we had made from six flags, and cried… Everyone was calling my cell the next morning, needless to say I didn’t answer. Most of them were apologies from my friend and my boyfriend, and they went on for about a week. Then my friend who told me texted me, and I wasn’t as sad (still very sad though), but I wasn’t mad at her anymore, so I read it, and it was telling me that the “friend” wasn’t pregnant, and I was relieved, but still pissed. So here I am, 5 days afterwards, and I’ve gotten nothing but emails, calls, text messages, gifts from my boyfriend. My friend doesn’t seem to regret what she’s done, so f*ck her. I won’t even think about her anymore. But should I talk to my boyfriend again? And maybe talk some more things out so I can forgive him?
And I know, I am supposed to be strictly a survey person, I just needed a second opinion. ):
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A man is only as faithful as his options.
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Dump that dooooshbag
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if it was me then no because i couldnt trust him again but u have to go wit what u feel in ut heart
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In most cases , I would say dump him. but since he keeps calling you back and texting you, then he must be truly sorry. Give him a second chance and if he does it again, dump him.
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You are right to talk things out with him, but be careful because if you go back to the same relationship you had before he will cheat on you again.
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I don’t think you should. Seasons change but people don’t.. you were away for a couple of days and he cheated on you with your best friend. that’s horrible, and you shouldn’t be with someone who would treat you like that.
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You shouldn’t forgive him. He betrayed your trust by not only dating another person, but having sex with them. Don’t forgive him until he is ready to sincerely apologize for what he has done to your trust.
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Wow. My advice-
Dump your boyfriend.
Tell your friend who hooked up with your boyfriend to keep him. I wouldn’t be friends with her at all.
And your other friend who told you is a good friend. You should talk to her and stuff like that.
I think you should forgive them. Just dump him in the process. Who knows he might cheat on you again. But hey, everyone gets a second chance.
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Forgive and forget him :]
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Tell him to choose between her and you. If he chooses you:
Tell his parents. Ask to get a copy of his phone bill every month and if he has a GPS, track where he’s been. Be very cautious but don’t let him know you’re doing it. If you tell him, he might just behave until he has your trust again and do it again. If you catch him redhanded, dump him.
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You should dump him and tell him you just wanna be friends because he might cheat on you again. But its your choice and remember, choose wisely
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