Would you rather die from a big bear or a swarm of a bees?
Ugh, this is a long story. But bear with me. I’m gonna make it as simple as possible.
I was out of town for about 6 weeks. As soon as I get settled back in at home, I get a text from my friend telling me that my other friend hooked up with my boyfriend, whom I’ve been with for two years, which just kills me even more. D: Drama! I initiated that we meet up at the dairy queen to talk, and everyone agreed. So it was me, my boyfriend, my friend that told me, and the friend that supposedly hooked up with my boyfriend. I asked them if it was true, and my boyfriend and my friend denied. Then my friend that told me said, “You liar, I told her, she knows. There’s no point in lying about it, especially since you might be pregnant.” Then my “friend” looked at her, then threw the icecream smoothie thing in her face. I was soooooooooo angry and sad and disappointed and baffled and all these emotions all at once. I asked my friend who told me why she didn’t tell me sooner, and she said that she figured that I didn’t wanna be bothered with this on my vacation… So my boyfriend was just quiet, thinking he could get away with it, but no. I slapped him, then ran outside to call my mom to come get me. I’ll I wanted to do at that moment was cry. So my mom came and got me, asking me why I was crying, I said nothing. As soon as I got home, I threw away all the pictures of me and my boyfriend, cut up the t-shirts we had made from six flags, and cried… Everyone was calling my cell the next morning, needless to say I didn’t answer. Most of them were apologies from my friend and my boyfriend, and they went on for about a week. Then my friend who told me texted me, and I wasn’t as sad (still very sad though), but I wasn’t mad at her anymore, so I read it, and it was telling me that the “friend” wasn’t pregnant, and I was relieved, but still pissed. So here I am, 5 days afterwards, and I’ve gotten nothing but emails, calls, text messages, gifts from my boyfriend. My friend doesn’t seem to regret what she’s done, so f*ck her. I won’t even think about her anymore. But should I talk to my boyfriend again? And maybe talk some more things out so I can forgive him?
And I know, I am supposed to be strictly a survey person, I just needed a second opinion. ):
Ok this is going to be long so bear with me. My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me. He was just wonderful in every possible way. Let me start from the begining. Five years ago I stumbled accross his website before I knew him. We both liked the same singer. I sent him an email and said how I loved his site and within 20 minutes he got back to me. So I began posting on his board and I loved it. On Saturday nights we had chats but usually after everyone left we stayed and talked for awhile. He lives in California and I’m on the other side of the country. Anyway, fast forward a bit. My parents and I decided to go on vacation in California. Of course I asked him if he wanted to meet he said yes. My parents were with me. We had lunch and dinner and it was wonderful we both felt chemistry. So after we met we became closer. One day he emailed me and said he loved me. That made me so happy. I told him I loved him too. We were so happy. He wanted me to move out there to be with him and I wanted that too. He bought me a plane ticket. I was so excited, so one night I sat my parents down and told them they freaked out. They took me to court and pretty much became my conservator, meaning they had to make all my decisions for me. It was just very heart breaking. They wouldnot allow me to talk to him, I had to use a friends cell phone to talk to him. They even had spyware on my computer. Eventually I had it removed and told my parents we aren’t talking anymore. We were so deeply in love. He treated me like a queen. Once he visited me for a few days while my parents were gone and it was amazing. Here’s the problem at times I te nd to have a controlling side at times which always pushed him away. Last Wednesday he broke up with me because he couldn’t take it. I’ve learned the hard way never to do that to anyone again. He is still my friend but I feel like he still loves me. My picture is still by his bed, myspace says I’m the love of his life. I’ve begged for him to take me back but he won’t. My question is do you think he still loves me? How can I have him back? Thanks!
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Grizzlies eat honey from normal bees but those aren’t as numerous nor programmed with DNA for more aggressive attacks to defend their honey. Grizzlies also smother wasp nests to eat wasp larvae, but North American wasps aren’t as numerous or as deadly as Africanized honeybees, right? I know their ranges will never overlap, at least not for 100 years as the bees spread upwards from lower latitudes. Was really just curious.
Tagged 100 years, africanized, africanized honeybees, aggressive attacks, bear, chance, dna, grizzlies, grizzly bear, honey, honeybees, killer, Killer-Bees, larvae, latitudes, North American, right, wasp, wasp nests, wasps
Posted in Honey Uses
Tagged 50's, bear, cheese, cheesey, comedy, cooking, drunk, Fun, funny, garlic, good, honey, joke, on, rock