Tag Archives: birth

Will people look down on me for being pregnant and having my child at 25 without being married and not having?

Posted on September 18, 2012 | 14 Comments

a career yet? I just got out of college in August and got pregnant with my 2 -year boyfriend in September. I admit I wasn’t on birth control which I should’ve been but birth control was havig bad effects on me it was making me ill vomiting weak etc after already a few months. My boyfriend and I had sex all the way (no pulling out) and no condom just one time and it was the day after my period stopped and I still got pregnant. I ideally wanted to a few more years to get my career going etc. I considered abortion but kept backing out. My boyfriend and I have been together since I was 22 so for 2 years and 3 months now we’ve bee together and have our own apartment together now for several months. Now I am 11 weeks pregnant by the time I can get an abortion I will be 12 weeks. My bf at first really wanted us to get an abortion but since I kept backing out wants to keep the child but Now I think abortion would be I hate to say it but more convenient. I do feel sad about it already.

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Posted in Beekeeping

Tagged Abortion, apartment, August, bf, birth, birth control, boyfriend, career, child, college, condom, control, few more years, time, Year

Good-Bad-Ugly……….even a chuckle brings home a star!?

Posted on July 7, 2012 | 5 Comments

Good:Your hubby and you agree, no more kids. Bad:You can’t find your birth control pills. Ugly:Your daughter borrowed them.
Good: Your son studies a lot in his room. Bad: You find several porn movies hidden there. Ugly:You’re in them
Good: Your husband understands fashion. Bad:He’s a cross-dresser.Ugly: He looks better than you
Good:Your son’s finally maturing. Bad: He’s involved with the woman next door. Ugly:So are you
Good:Giving the birds & bees talk to your daughter.Bad:She keeps interrupting. Ugly:With corrections
Good:Your wife’s not talking to you. Bad: She wants a divorce
Ugly: She’s a lawyer
Good:The postman’s early. Bad:He’s wearing fatigues and carrying an AK47. Ugly:You gave him nothing for Christmas
Good:Your daughter got a new job. Bad:As a hooker
Ugly : Your coworkers are her best clients. Way ugly : She makes more money than you do.
Good:You’re son is dating someone new. Bad:It’s another man. Ugly:He’s your best friend.

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Posted in Beekeeping

Tagged bad, birth, birth control, birth control pills, chuckle, control, daughter, good, home, hubby, star, Ugly

joke why was she angry………A farmer was helping one of his cows?

Posted on June 22, 2012 | 3 Comments

give birth, when he noticed his four year old son standing at the fence, soaking in the whole event.

The man thought to himself, “Great. He’s four and I’m gonna have to start explaining the birds and the bees. No need to jump the gun – I’ll just let him ask, and I’ll answer.”

After everything was over, the man walked over to his son and said, “Well son, do you have any questions?”

“Just one,” gasped the still wide-eyed lad.

“How fast was that calf going when he hit that cow?”

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Two nuns were travelling by car in Transalvania.
Suddenly a horrible Dracula Demon leapt onto the car and began hissing at them.
The driver turned on the wipers but couldn’t dislodge the demon, who kept hissing.
The the nun said “Try the windscreen washers, I filled them myself with Holy Water”
The water was squirted and the demon screamed as it burnt him but he stayed there hissing at them.
“Show him your cross” said the driver “That always sends them away”
So the other nun rolled down the window, stuck her head out and shouted

“Hey schtit-face!!! Get the f–k off my car!!!!!

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Posted in Beekeeping

Tagged birth, cows, Event, farmer, fence, joke, son, standing, Year

Would society give a black woman a free cheating pass to a woman who loved, married and got hurt by THREE men?

Posted on May 20, 2012 | 2 Comments

I’m a 45 year old black woman; I’ll be 46 in August. First, I started dating a guy named Joe when I was about 15 years old. He was my first love and he took my virginity. After we graduated from high school, I found out I was pregnant and then I gave birth to Joe’s son the following year, 1983. I have sickle cell anemia and I nearly died after I gave birth to my son, so I made sure that was the first, last and only time I ever got pregnant. Joe and I got married in 1985 but we got divorced in 1989. Joe broke my heart by having sex with every dirty whore he laid eyes on while I worked a 9-5 job, cooked, cleaned and raised our son.

A year after I divorced Joe, I met Carl in 1990. We got married in 1992. I admit that Carl was probably the best man I ever had; he treated me like a queen. But we started having issues because he always smoked weed but that never bothered me until he eventually graduated to coke and stuff like that. I did NOT want that mess around my child so I broke up with Carl in 1998; but we weren’t officially divorced until 2000. I also admit that I probably would have stayed with Carl longer if I hadn’t Anthony.

I met Anthony in 1998 and started dating him. Although I was still married to Carl and living with him, I was fed up with his absences whenever he wanted to go get high somewhere. I don’t think Carl ever cheated on me, unless the drugs count as “mistresses”. After dating Anthony for 2 months, I left Carl and moved in with Anthony. After I divorced Carl in 2000, I married Anthony in 2001. Anthony and I have been happily married for a while but he made ONE mistake three years ago by having an affair. I forgave him but I was extremely hurt. I thought for once that I found the “right” man. Anthony has been very good to me ever since and I still love him. BUT, now I’m not so sure if this marriage is right anymore. Just last year, I started having a few affairs of my own. No strings attached and I like it that way. It gives me a freedom I ain’t felt in a while. I daydream about being free and single sometimes. Is it wrong that I’m cheating? Or as a woman, can you empathize with the pain I’ve gone through by getting my heart broken by THREE men I loved and exchanged wedding vows with?

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Tagged anemia, August, birth, black woman, cell anemia, cheating, dirty whore, first love, guy, guy named joe, having sex, Heart, job, joe, Love, pass, Society, son, three men, virginity, woman, Year, year 1983