I have told my husband already about this girl calling him constantly for everything (job application, carpool, drop off something at her house cuz she left it at work) to stop responding to her calls and tell her up front to call HR and not him. Anyways, I told him how I felt about her calling (when i saw the cell phone bill) i saw that she calls him during his break time and it is like every two minutes. she calls when he is at work not at home.
anyways so i confronted him last night and he says “oh don’t worry about it it is nothing” i had to use the car so i had to drop him off to work yesterday he kisses me then i wiped it off and said ” i am upset with you” he says “f*** you what did i do now” i said “oh oh you are very innocent you are doing nothing but good” then i hop in the car and left. since then i havent talk to him except it is about the girls (our 4 children)
i had him sleep in the living room. made a way to occupy the whole queen bed
what i dont undestand why does he says he is not doing anything and he will not ask to talk about it nor even apologizes for lying to me that he calls her
he says this all the time as long as i am not f*** anyone i am not doing anything wrong.
i guess disrespecting me is nothing for him as well my feelings how i feel etc.. is nothing to him
i feel so hurt
he will not speak nothing because he believe that he is right