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Will people look down on me for being pregnant and having my child at 25 without being married and not having?

a career yet? I just got out of college in August and got pregnant with my 2 -year boyfriend in September. I admit I wasn’t on birth control which I should’ve been but birth control was havig bad effects on me it was making me ill vomiting weak etc after already a few months. My boyfriend and I had sex all the way (no pulling out) and no condom just one time and it was the day after my period stopped and I still got pregnant. I ideally wanted to a few more years to get my career going etc. I considered abortion but kept backing out. My boyfriend and I have been together since I was 22 so for 2 years and 3 months now we’ve bee together and have our own apartment together now for several months. Now I am 11 weeks pregnant by the time I can get an abortion I will be 12 weeks. My bf at first really wanted us to get an abortion but since I kept backing out wants to keep the child but Now I think abortion would be I hate to say it but more convenient. I do feel sad about it already.

Good-Bad-Ugly……….even a chuckle brings home a star!?

Good:Your hubby and you agree, no more kids. Bad:You can’t find your birth control pills. Ugly:Your daughter borrowed them.
Good: Your son studies a lot in his room. Bad: You find several porn movies hidden there. Ugly:You’re in them
Good: Your husband understands fashion. Bad:He’s a cross-dresser.Ugly: He looks better than you
Good:Your son’s finally maturing. Bad: He’s involved with the woman next door. Ugly:So are you
Good:Giving the birds & bees talk to your daughter.Bad:She keeps interrupting. Ugly:With corrections
Good:Your wife’s not talking to you. Bad: She wants a divorce
Ugly: She’s a lawyer
Good:The postman’s early. Bad:He’s wearing fatigues and carrying an AK47. Ugly:You gave him nothing for Christmas
Good:Your daughter got a new job. Bad:As a hooker
Ugly : Your coworkers are her best clients. Way ugly : She makes more money than you do.
Good:You’re son is dating someone new. Bad:It’s another man. Ugly:He’s your best friend.

Why do some men commit themselves to drama queens?

One of my friends married a woman after she got him landed in jail, marked up his car, and acted a fool at his job. Another friend is very much committed to a woman who insisted that she was on birth control when she wasn’t. He didn’t want another kid with her and told her that. Another guy I know is infactuated with a woman who seeks to get her ego stroked in between relationships. Another guy I know is very committed to his childrens’ mother even though she keeps having sex with the neighbor everytime they move a new apartment. Another guy stays with his girlfriend even though she has no respect for him, screams at him, curses him out. Constantly accuses of him cheating and screens his cell phone calls. When I meet some men they act all surprised when they find I’m friendly and outgoing. Not full of drama.
What’s going on?
I’m faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar from a drama queen.

Why do some men commit themselves to drama queens?

One of my friends married a woman after she got him landed in jail, marked up his car, and acted a fool at his job. Another friend is very much committed to a woman who insisted that she was on birth control when she wasn’t. He didn’t want another kid with her and told her that. Another guy I know is infactuated with a woman who seeks to get her ego stroked in between relationships. Another guy I know is very committed to his childrens’ mother even though she keeps having sex with the neighbor everytime they move a new apartment. Another guy stays with his girlfriend even though she has no respect for him, screams at him, curses him out. Constantly accuses of him cheating and screens his cell phone calls. When I meet some men they act all surprised when they find I’m friendly and outgoing. Not full of drama.
What’s going on?

Why do some men commit themselves to drama queens?

One of my friends married a woman after she got him landed in jail, marked up his car, and acted a fool at his job. Another friend is very much committed to a woman who insisted that she was on birth control when she wasn’t. He didn’t want another kid with her and told her that. Another guy I know is infactuated with a woman who seeks to get her ego stroked in between relationships. Another guy I know is very committed to his childrens’ mother even though she keeps having sex with the neighbor everytime they move a new apartment. Another guy stays with his girlfriend even though she has no respect for him, screams at him, curses him out. Constantly accuses of him cheating and screens his cell phone calls.
What’s going on?