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The story is very long, but I will not go into too much detail. My husband has always worked long hours and always has used his cell phone for business purposes (the company pays his bill). I would have never thought he would’ve never cheated on me but I received an e-mail from a ladies husband through myspace stating that my husband was having an affair with his wife. They were getting a divorce because of this and that he didn’t want to tell me until after I had my 3rd child and the holidays. His cousin (which works with this woman) informed him of the relationship. Supposedly she told her everything about their relationship. I checked his phone records and found out he was talking to this woman twice a day sometimes more. Which is no be deal because she was an agent for the laborers he needs for his jobs. But the conversations were always twenty minutes or more and they were talking on her personal cell. he also said he was talking to her son which worked part time with the company. The conversations were very lengthy and he never talked to her around me it was always when he was headed to work and when he was coming home but also when he was at work.Now, my husband never showed any signs of having an affair and I would have never checked his records till I received the e-mail. So, I did confront him only on the basis of this e-mail and phone records I know I should have waited to confront him till I had more concrete evidence but the anxiety was tearing me apart. I have to take care of three children, one being an infant. He completely denied it and I also spoke to the women who completely denied also, as expected. Well they both tried to say she was trying to get back at my husband for getting her fired because he could never get a hold of her(the cousin) for the people he needed. She was trying to set him up and ruin his relationship with me. The only proof I have is the phone records but it doesn’t prove anything, does it? I just don’t know what to to. We have been together for 7 years now been married for 5 he is 14 years older than me and when we first got together I was so thankful I met him, I thought since he was older I would never be cheated on. We had our problems in the beginning but things have been so good for us. He did cheat on a previous wife but that was something they both did. I just don’t know what to do, I want to believe him, I love him so much. He treats me like a queen and appreciates everything thing I do. Could someone really want to set him up, why would someone want to do that? I try to talk to family about it, but I’m so embarrassed and ashamed. I believe I’m becoming depressed. I need to pull it together for my kids they shouldn’t have to suffer because mommy is sad. Please any advice would be helpful!
to sugar glider….
The husband is supposedly already in the process of getting a divorce because of this. So he is no longer with her. He said it’s been going on since Oct 2008, or that is when he found out. I’m still trying to get more information before I say anything else to him. I’m not sure what I can do. He has already stopped all phone call to her from his cell. I don’t have money to pay for a p.i. I’m getting his text records sent to me soon, so I can see if they’ve been texting each other.