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My girlfriend of 3 years says she “loves” somebody else. He’s married, has 2 young kids. What to do?

I’ve been with my girl for @ 3 years, lived together for over 1 1/2 years. I’m 29, she’s 25, we’ve had ups and downs, but for the most part, everything’s been great up until a month ago. I noticed our cell phone bill was higher than usual, checked it out, and discovered she had been talking/emailing this guy she met on a website for a few weeks. (He lives on the other side of the country.)Thier convo’s started off as her talking to him about me, some issues we’ve had, he consoled her for a bit, and then played the “I’d treat you like a queen” routine. Took advantage of the situation. He’s married, has two kids, and keeps telling my g/f he’s going to get a divorce, and that he wants to be with her, and that he loves her. She’s buying all of this bs. Now she’s staying at a friends so she can “sort out her head”. She calls/texts all the time, we still sleep together, we still have a great time. She says she loves me and doesn’t want to lose me. Do I move on? Do I tell the wife? Do I wait?