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I’ll begin by saying we split over 4 months ago …I had his online cell acct. information and I randomly would log on into account recent activity ….So one day back in july I found a bunch of random numbers late night and picture mail and immediately called and asked about these women and what’s going on and he told me he was no longer happy and he just wants to take care of our now 1 year old daughter that we share together we met when we were 19 and ar now both 22 we married a yr and a half after we were in a relationship and everything was soooo nice I was his first he treated me like a queen I fell in love with him because I had never experienced such a wonderful relationship in my life and he was like the perfect gentlemen …but as time went on into the marriage in which we both lived in his mother’s home and we both worked I became pregnant with our daughter now and decided that I was going to move out when she was born into my grandmother’s home where the baby and I would have more space…and he would come to visit weekends because he didn’t work and when this began is when I noticed the suspicious behavior and things just weren’t the same….so to make a long story short when I found out he cheated and we separated I kept the baby on week days while he worked I have no babysitter so therefore was unable to work he would get her on weekends and pay me 150 a week without the courts involved just between us that was the initial agreement …this carried on for the past four months …One day last week he sent me a random text saying “U are not getting anymore money from me in your hand after you pay for our daughter’s b-day party coming up if our daughter needs anything I will get it” this created an argument b/c I have always sent him pics of everything I purchase for our child with the c/s money given to me per week and just didn’t understand what the sudden change was about and he does’nt have a car so idk how i would get things from him…SO this past weekend I take our daughter to him as I always have been since we split to him on weekends and he doesn’t give me the money for her party …I ask Are you going to give me the money he says u aren’t getting shit from me I say ok give me my daughter then I will take her back home with me since u want to discontnue giving me c/s he says no and we began to physically fight b/c I was trying to get my child from him he starts calling me a bitch and saying I’m not shit which did hurt me because he never said those things to me ..so I took my child home friday and sat attempted to make a phone call to him telling him his child needed diapers and wipes but he turned his phone off since friday???AM I wrong or is he wrong and I need your oppinions on this situation PLEASE my family is not going to give me an honest answer!THANKS best answer will be chosen!