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what is “black” enough?

this is serious. my best friend is white and his wife is black. in conversations over the years we have talked about race relations within their families concerning their union. she has told me she is dimissed by several of her relatives for not being what she calls ‘black enough’ because of her taste in music,movies,friends and men. i have known her longer than him and knows she has varied taste in all aspects of her life.what is ‘black’?
EDIT: ticklemeblue,
saying she is embracing ‘white culture’ is almost as crazy as saying she is not black enough. she is not turning her back on her ‘culture’, i feel she just chooses to embrace and experience everything she can from whatever sources and not allow herself be pigeonholed into living as ‘black’ society dictates.
yes, neo. i like her very much. she is a very classy lady; a good wife,mom,daughter and friend.

how can i change my attitude towards my stepdad when he makes me feel really bad?

im trying so hard to be nicer to him…but i just cant…every time he talks to me there is a fight and he makes me cry and makes me feel depressed.He makes fun of my friends and calls them freaks when he doesn’t even know them…all he knows is that they aren’t(as much as i hate labels)preppy..they are “gothish” “emo”(which is i guess what i am… people say i am…)and he yelled at me and insulted me when my room was dirty and i had a low b in math i think…but then i cleaned my room for 6 hours and got my grade up to a high a and he told me my room smelt too perfumey(no good job or anything just points out the only flaw) and doesn’t care about my grade at all now…but if it goes down again he will insult me til i cry…and i wanted to get my haircut 2day and my mom said maybe and he said wow you are being such a bitch whining about a haircut when the people in the news lost their houses cause of the storm…which made me fell like a pile of shit…so i went in my room and cried…and he turned my cell phone off cause he thinks i have a bad attitude….and he said hell turn it back on if i fix my attitude…but i just cant stand to be around him…hes always insulting me…i know im probably overeating but that’s just how i am…when he says he wants me to change my attitude it makes me feel like he wants me to change..like everything about me…he pretty much hates my clothes and hair and wants me to change that along with my attitude….but i like the way i dress…and i don’t wanna change who i am…he also makes fun of the music i listen to and says they are shit and wouldn’t be anything without the inspiration from the stuff he listens to….which upsets me cause i take my music very seriously…music is the only thing that cheers me up lately..now im just getting into random things….anyway…i just wanna know if there is anything you can suggest i do help me change cause im trying sooo hard and its not working…im actually a really nice person its just him that i don’t seem to get along with
i already talked to her…she says im a drama queen…and that i take everything he says too seriously

Hi! I am in a Spelling Bee tomorrow and I need to know the best study tips.?

Should i study with music on? What kinds? I need REALLY fast answers to this! Thanks bunches!

name some bands for me…?

ok some of my faves are devil wears prada, sky eats airplane, blink182, simple plan, drop dead gorgeous, dead poetic, metallica, the academy is…, cute is what we aim for, the higher, hawthorne heights, all time low, escape the fate, well i think u get the piont…sry im like obsessed with music….so as u can tell i like a variety of rock, punk, screemo, alternative, etc…..so do u know any bands that i might like?

STAR~~ if u LOVE music and would die without it!!! (i totally would!)

^_^

Anyone else here a fan of the late Grymm Reaper?

Poetic, from the Gravediggaz, died of colon cancer on July 15 2001, and was (and still is) one of my favorite emcees to listen to. I don’t see much talk in here about any of his music, so I wanted to ask, what are your favorite verses by him?
Here are some of mine:

“Yo, from the first day, that I burst through the skin of a virgin
I was cursed by sin
A mammal of the sea
Pops named John Samuel Berkeley, out of his nuts came me
True indeed I had soul, even as a tadpole
Grab hold of an egg, just to have a mole
Grew up surrounded by darkness and blood
Swimmin in the cut like Noah in the flood
EH AH AH AH AH!! Drama! Devils attack me inside my MOMMA!
This caused trauma
While I was growin up she was throwin up
It got worse – it’s how I met the doc and the nurse
They took an X-ray, kept it to the next DAY
to figure out the best way to posess ME
Trapped in a pool of impurity
without security, nearly ruined me
No immunity, to the curse yet
I saw the Earth sweatin, as poppa prayed on the church step
in the place where they worship
As the nurse crept I got mad nervous”

“burn baby burn”
“Dangerous Mindz”

“Yo, I got stress on my brain that causes chest pains inside the best frames ghetto blood clots is scored by slug shots and drug spots, well if you’re too poor to move out
or get a new house, it’s like livin in a war walkin through shootouts
And you doubt God exists, when hard fists
be poundin on your head like jackhammers
You’re trapped in the black drama, you hear the laughter seconds after that you fade out, you’re played out, you’re laid out
Your heart nearly gave out, you’re lucky that you made out with just a few scars when the beating ends
The streets [sniff] let ya breathe again
But evil men, will soon be on the receiving end
of Universal Law, I’m callin on the meek and the poor To fight back and never forfeit the day you have to go to war
With forces that are armed upon the seven continental borders A mental fortress is essentials to absorb this
My sword hits the human orb until it orbits
In the art of war kids see Grym Reap be morbid…..
continued:

…Since pieces of the lost civilization in the past Had my photographs etched inside of pyramids To laugh at this revelation, without 365 days of concentration and twenty-four hour meditation, would be foolishly pagan
I’m ancient as ‘amen’, see I stay Grym
Throwin fools in in a pit full of pit bulls to be shaken Or strapped to the crossroads of Hell and inner sin Which trap the sinners in, to sell such in Sing-Sing. I bring Grym tidings, tidal-ed/titled your wave all not exciting
Stop riding the dick, start writin your own shit
Cause I stick figures that think they fat and can’t rap wind blast I make em Slim Fast, lookin like stick figures
I’m all that, I bag chips at concerts and shows
Get more panties than hoes that boost Victoria Secret clothes…..
..Foes is tagged like ex-foes toes at the coroner’s
Kids with cold feet rise and fall like the barometer
Grym will mentally chop your career
See shit is locked down here, like penitentiary blocks in tears
Escape outta your ducts every time you hear my name
you better duck fate, or catch a fuckin face full of duct tape
You get smacked like a trick that sniffed off her money
Then smoked like Rzarector with the blunts dipped in honey”

it wouldnt let me post the whole verse, so I had to split it up into 3 parts… That verse is sick.